Monday, December 20, 2010

indeed, tis' the season to be jolly.....celebrate !

soo.. i m going to do a cut and paste from a offline blog entry, and here it goes (writting approx 8ish pm last night)...


The past few days have been absolutely amazing. They have been simple yet, profound in many different ways.. I am now travelling on a moving vehicle on my way back to another place.. with the lack of internet access in the last hours I have decided that I would make good use of the travel time I have .. and get on with the program, catching up w my share of the blogging (right s?)
Anyway,  for the record ,I just love the idea that we are owning and working on something together.. its sweet. just the feeling of it. So where do I go from here, what would or shall I talk about. Really, it would be and could be anything.. if u alrbvady did realize from the preamble my partner started, we actually don’t have a theme. Yes.. nada.. with that being said. I would like to share a couple of wise lines I came across with recently.. it seems that someone famous once said.. “you got to let go of the life you planned, to embrace the life that’s awaiting for you”. another one goes like, “ life is far too important a thing, to talk seriously about (Oscar Wilde) “.. not sure what I am eluding to, or if I even have a point but it seems like everyone in their 30s have an opinion that life itself is somehow complicated.. is it?
When posed with such question, I tend to always hold the same stance that, “life could be worst”… so, whatever it is that seems like the whole world is crumbling upon you now.. there are many other possible permutations out there that could be worst. This then brings me back to the Eat Pray Love movie/ book I watched/ read few months back. So Liz said this.. every woman in the world, couldn’t escape on tragedy .. yes , being obsessed about their relationships. I think she spoke about a psychologist Dr. friend who was volunteering at some Cambodian refugee camp and she wondered what this American doctor person could advise a bunch of post trauma ladies in the refugee camp.. little did she know.. they all had a common theme …relationship troubles… its interesting, but that’s probably true.
So when I was much younger, and I mean, like 10 years ago or more, I had this crazy idea, I would write a book about relationships. Not that I am an expert or even close  to being veteran in this field, I just thought from the very many relationship emo drama I have heard, saw, experienced around me..i could collate them, and put them together and.. recognized, there are really many ways of looking at a relationship out there. The idea obviously never came to realization, but that was ok as I was too busy doing other things.. but still .. it amazes me that.. all of us, are somehow still talking or debating about some relationship, be it ours, or another.
If you are randomly reading this blog, I would just like to share this key sharing. If do you do.. stumble along something less happy in your life.. just feel all the emo you need to, while you are at it. What I am saying is that - if you need to be sad, be all sad. If you need a closure, get it. If you want to breakaway, see something new. Do it.. just do it. Life’s really too short, to over consider, over calculate, over mitigate. Sometimes, you really gotta just plan less and do more. Execute today, go for it. Whatever you want.
Yes – I sound like a motivational guru, all of a sudden, out of no where .. but I really am not one.  Neither am I just recently out of a bad breakup.  Just random thoughts, random from all the random conversations and environmental observations I thought – worth the while to share.
I look forward to food blogging, or maybe not.
Lets see. Until then, continue to lurveeee….cheerios.

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